Rubina Dilaik on overcoming marital points with Abhinav Shukla: The journey has made me a greater individual

TV couple Rubina Dilaik and Abhinav Shukla like to journey. And not too long ago, the duo obtained an opportunity to doc their journey to Abu Dhabi for MX Player present Wanderlust. While Abhinav loved driving the Mustang and taking pictures the rifle, Rubina picked their Emirati wedding ceremony as “the best moment”.

“Just to get married to this man again in a new culture was the moment of my life. It’s still so fresh in my memory. I think it is a good idea to get married in various cultures,” the Shakti actor advised indianexpress.com.

While the present revolved across the journey in a distinct metropolis, we quizzed the actors about their journey as a pair. Readers would know that Rubinav, as they’re fondly referred to as by followers, had spoken about robust occasions of their marriage on Bigg Boss 14. The couple talked about that they even contemplated divorce. Talking about their journey, Rubina stated that she is grateful for the journey as she believes that’s extra essential than the vacation spot itself.

“There is not even an iota of regret about what was said, done, or discussed. We worked upon it as a challenge and there is only gratitude. The journey made me a better person and has instilled a lot of confidence in each other. We have overcome the troubles together and understood how little compromises and adjustments take you far. It’s always about creating a fine balance. That’s how this journey has been,” Rubina shared.

Husband Abhinav Shukla added that there isn’t a scope for a blame-game between them. He stated, “That was there for a short period when things were not so great. But now we know where we went wrong and we acknowledge our shortcomings. We have never been so comfortable with our relationship.”

While all is nicely in Rubinav’s world, we puzzled in the event that they’ve ever felt compelled to undertaking an ideal couple picture on social media. Sharing that they get trolled as a result of they’ve by no means made an effort to place their relationship on social media, Abhinav stated, “She doesn’t have the habit of reading comments but sometimes I do. And people keep telling us why we don’t put photos together and comment on each other’s posts. But I want to say that it’s our choice and we will keep doing that. We can’t be told how we present our bond on social media. The trolling and criticism will continue but that’s how we are as people.”

Echoing his ideas, Rubina Dilaik added that she understands followers’ want to know what’s occurring of their lives. “Also, being on the biggest reality show, we gave that access to people to judge us and also peek into our lives. However, we had gone there with an intention. But when it comes to social media, we choose what we want to put across. We would never put up a facade or even a problem. We cannot just keep putting PDA posts. It doesn’t work for us.”

As for trolling, the Arth actor shared that she is shocked by the way in which individuals train the liberty of expression. She stated, “They are so inconsiderate and heartless. It sometimes feels like a stab. I don’t even look at the comments but when it starts affecting my near and dear ones, I don’t take it. These comments by pseudo fans feel like an attack. And when my family or Abhinav are involved, I take my Rudra roop and slam everyone. I won’t take that from anyone.”

In June this yr, Rubina and Abhinav will full 4 years of marriage. On requested if they’d advocate the establishment of marriage, Rubina laughed to share, “We don’t do it voluntarily but if someone asks, I think given our mistakes and how we overcame it, I would love to share that experience. I think there’s so much that we can learn from companionship and relationship and I would like to share that advice. I also strongly believe that everything about you is connected to your relationships. If you are happy in your interpersonal bonds, everything else also seems better in life.”

Abhinav Shukla added that he feels that one ought to get married provided that they wish to. He stated, “Don’t listen to friends and relatives and do it because they say so. Make a choice, be clear and have your facts straight. Also, don’t blame anyone if things don’t go as planned. However, I must add that it’s indeed a beautiful journey.”

And what about family and friends nudging them to turn into dad and mom? “That’s basic human nature and I think it comes because they care for you,” shared Abhinav. He added that just a few mates simply need you to hitch the gang and these questions by no means upset him. “If one doesn’t care or ask, one may miss it and feel people are now cold. It’s a natural instinct. However, at the end of the day, it’s going to be our call. That’s how we draw the line. One can nudge us but never pressure.”

Rubina too agreed on the identical and confessed that there’s nothing on the playing cards as of now. “I do see my friends and the love and joy kids bring in their lives. I believe having a child marks the evolution of a relationship but we’ll only have one when we are ready,” she concluded.