Dear Rubina Dilaik, You Are Fabulous And You Are Winning Bigg Boss 14 With or Without Trophy!

Dear Rubina Dilaik, I’ll be trustworthy, I haven’t watched your earlier reveals however I keep in mind the glimpses of each Chhoti Bahu and the very empowering Shakti: Astitva Ke Ehsaas Ki. I all the time had a lot respect for you due to the way you selected to characterize the trans neighborhood in a mainstream TV present. I’ve been following you from day one in Bigg Boss 14 and despite the fact that I used to be not very large on the present this season, I all the time made certain that I see and know what you might be doing inside the home. The function of this letter is to not root in your win (although that might make me glad), the aim of writing that is to let individuals know that you’re a lady of braveness, conviction, and power. There’s quite a bit that’s at present going inside the home since we’re only a few days away from the Grand Finale, and there’s quite a bit that has already been spoken and written about you on social media. However, I’m glad that regardless of all of the criticism and misogyny that you’ve got confronted contained in the present, you stay strong-headed and completely focussed on the sport. Also Read – Bigg Boss 14: Aly Goni Fights With Rahul Vaidya, Rubina Dilaik, Says ‘Ab Mein Apne Liye Khelunga’ The first time I felt like ‘this is a woman of substance’ was whenever you spoke about your choice of collaborating within the present. I feel you and Abhinav make a beautiful couple, for the actual fact that if you are the roaring wave, he’s the calm of the shore. And once I noticed you each holding fingers, emotional, making an attempt to seek for phrases that might categorical the depth of the ache you confronted previously, one thing broke inside me. I truthfully thought that for any lady to discuss separation together with her husband is a giant deal, particularly right here, when it doesn’t matter what has occurred between the 2 – society is all the time going to query the lady, all the time going to place the blame on her, and all the time going to inform her ‘you could have tried harder.’ Yes, you had been targetted a number of occasions for a similar and many individuals additionally known as this a promotional technique. But you recognize what, even when it was a promotional technique, it nonetheless set a robust instance for a lot of girls and {couples} who concern expressing and speaking about what’s taking place of their relationship. And criticising what you stated comes from the identical mindset that appears down upon individuals who seek the advice of relationship consultants and counselors to save lots of their marriages. Also Read – Bigg Boss 14: Does Nikki Tamboli Deserve The Ticket To Finale? Another time once I may completely relate was whenever you took a stand towards Rakhi Sawant’s behaviour in direction of your husband. No lady and I repeat – no lady, has or ought to give a free move to a different lady harassing her husband for some TRPs or what most individuals known as ‘entertainment’. I did assume that it’s best to have requested Rakhi to step again originally itself however then I believed that had I been in your home, I’d have additionally given her that longer rope initially. I perceive that being a girl, you wouldn’t have needed to color one other lady ugly. And my jaw-dropped to see how individuals conveniently forgot that even when the water went above the bridge, you requested your husband first to alter his behaviour with Rakhi. You didn’t go round bashing her or collect sympathy towards Rakhi for torturing (and I’ve no disgrace in utilizing this phrase) your husband. The act of throwing a bucket full of water is nothing as in comparison with what Indian girls are identified to do once they see ‘other’ girls making an attempt to harass their husbands. You don’t mess up with a spouse – so simple as that! Also Read – Bigg Boss 14 Mid-Week Voting Trends: Rubina Dilaik Reigns, Rakhi Sawant Gets Only 2% Votes

You had been nominated for that act of violence as a result of sadly, Bigg Boss doesn’t have any guidelines for the act of ‘mental violence’ that occurs with contestants inside. Seeing you and Abhinav separating was each lovely and painful. I let you know why. Painful, due to course – you two had been collectively for therefore many days inside the home that it was nearly unbelievable to understand that we’d solely be capable to see one in all you on our TV screens, and exquisite, as a result of I may see how your function of coming into the present was lastly fulfilled. You and Abhinav seemed a lot in love that I instantly felt like thanking the present for doing one thing so significant in two individuals’s lives. Whatever the result’s, whoever wins the trophy this 12 months, I do know that you’ve got received many hearts. You would know that after you come out of the home. You by no means portrayed your self because the damsel in misery even whenever you talked about having anxiousness points, mood issues, and having a tough relationship along with your mother and father previously. I didn’t see a sufferer there. It was a girl talking about how she confronted challenges in life and determined to work on them. You stated it in a method that seemed extra courageous than helpless. That’s one of the best factor about you, Rubina; You should not a bechari! May the powers be with you and also you come out with the trophy, strolling hand-in-hand with Abhinav. Much love and greatest wishesVineeta