Recent statistics highlight a surge in extramarital affairs across India, presenting a surprising shift in the urban landscape. The latest report identifies Kanchipuram, a city in Tamil Nadu, as the leading hub for these affairs. This marks a departure from previous trends, where cities like Delhi and Mumbai dominated the charts. Mumbai, which topped the list last year, isn’t even in the top 20 this time.
The dating platform Ashley Madison’s report indicates Kanchipuram’s significant leap, rising from 17th place in 2024 to the first position in 2025. The city records the highest number of registrations on extramarital affair platforms across India.
The Supreme Court’s 2018 decision, which deemed consensual extramarital relationships between adults as non-criminal, further contextualizes these evolving relationship dynamics.
Ashley Madison’s Chief Strategy Officer, Paul Keable, notes an evolving perspective in India, with extramarital affairs becoming less taboo. The underlying motivation frequently extends beyond physical intimacy, addressing emotional needs. These affairs can profoundly impact both couples and children, potentially affecting their mental well-being.