September holds a special significance for Vijay Kumari, a 77-year-old from Lucknow, as she reflects on her husband, Major Dhirendra Singh, who was awarded the Vir Chakra for his bravery during the 1965 India-Pakistan war. Despite being wounded in the conflict, his courage and valor are a source of enduring pride for his wife. Major Dhirendra Singh, then 25, served on the Kashmir front in 1965. He sustained a severe leg injury from a bomb explosion, leading to its amputation.
Major Dhirendra Singh displayed unwavering resolve, neutralizing enemy artillery. This act of heroism earned him the Vir Chakra, the third-highest gallantry award in the nation. Vijay Kumari notes that communication was limited during that era, and she learned of her husband’s injury through a letter. On September 23, 1965, while at her parents’ residence in Gorakhpur, a letter from the Commanding Officer of the 3rd Battalion (Rifles) of the Kumaon Regiment reached her in-laws’ home, conveying details of the event.
Following the war, Major Dhirendra Singh’s life underwent a significant shift. In 1966, he received an artificial leg and was stationed in Lucknow. Despite being medically discharged in 1971, he remained steadfast, always motivating his children. His dream was for his son to join the military, and his joy knew no bounds when his son participated in the passing out parade.
Vijay Kumari emphasizes her husband’s remarkable mental strength. Even with an artificial leg, he was capable of operating a scooter, car, and tractor. He maintained a firm belief in the importance of facing and overcoming adversity. The loss of Major Singh in Delhi in April 2025 was a challenging time for Vijay Kumari, yet his bravery and courage continue to inspire his family.